Argh!!! my best friend is little miss perfect!!! she acts like a shy little flirty girl that makes the guys in our school really like her. But really, thats not what she acts like normally. She is athletic, with gorgeously layered skin, she is a chesnut color and has shoulder muscles that make her overall look amazing and she acts really mature and she is really smart and everything!! EVERYONE LOVES HER!!! and people like me because... well, cuz im her friend! but i am different.. i have strawberry blonde hair thats medium length and freckles and im skinny (while she isnt fat... but she isnt a twig... she is muscularly built i guess) and so she makes guys laugh and they love her and then im there standing in her shadow calling out for someone to see me... but nobody does. and now im getting really upset cuz i keep thinking im ugly stupid even though im not and im more athletic and smart than her... even though everyone thinks otherwise. ARGH!!! none of the guys even look my way!
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
Wow... Cool down sweetie.
Well, since I'm not a girl, I really can't recommend anything useful with regards to your friend. But as a guy, I can tell you something: Stand out and make yourself noticed! Sure, you're completely behind her shadow now. But if you can stand out (without completely changing yourself or ruining your friendship), you two can end up being two of the most likable friends in school.
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
Stop being jealous about your friend its not a competition
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
Start pulling yourself away from her. You can still be friends but try meeting new people and get to know diferrent crowds. Meet people who don't hang out with your friend and let them see the real you. Also, be outgoing (guys love it and people will love it for it).
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
wow.
you are seriously jealous.
dont worry thou. i've felt that way before too. just be your self and dont change for other people.
you are perfect in your own way. if we were all made the same it would be boring.
be patient.
there is a guy out there for you.
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
Wow...this is really bothering you! I think you are jealous...and that's not good! We all have our own special qualities and we should embrace that! If you want more attention, than go for it...but is that really you? Be yourself, and it's other people's loss if they dont notice you.
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
dng...a really big sense of jealousy u have going on, but jst becuz shes "hogging" thes spotlight, doesnt mean u shouldnt either. we each have our own way on getting someones attention. what u need to do is talk to her. thats the best option cuz if this keeps going on, u'll eventually start hating her and shes going to get hurt since its not her fault shes outgoing and everything. talk to her before. dnt hide wat ur feeling cuz, trust me, it'll make u into a shallow and different person..
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
Its all about the personality.. Maybe she is more outgoing than you are. If these guys just like her than its a different story than her actually having a boyfriend. If she doesnt have one or cant keep one, then thats when they see her true flaws.
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
Maybe they like her for all the wrong reasons. Have you thought of that? Maybe she is putting out and they all want a piece of the pie?
She is attracting guys that like her Looks.
Wait and you will see that you Will attract those who like yours. But how are you going to find out when its always the same group that you are in.
Explore some other get togethers, and more friends.
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
Maybe you need to seperate yourself from her a little bit. Don't stop being friends, just show people that your not her sidekick. Show them how you're different from her by doing different activities and talking to different people. Be more open to new things.
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
You are as beautiful and interesting as you want people to believe. Don't let you comparisons with your friend hold you back. I have stated in many of my answers that "Self Confidence" is the most attractive attribute any woman can have.
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
Stop being jealous of your friend and give yourself the attention that you desire. Make some changes in your own life and work your way up to fabulous. If you're not happy with yourself you can't expect anyone to be happy with you! Your jealousy about your friend sounds a bit intense %26amp; if she bothers you that much stop hanging out with her. Don't compare yourself with others, compare yourself with the past you. You always get better! Better yourself for your sake.
Miss Perfect VS well.... me.....?
dont worry ive been in ur shoes an eventually my mate not only got a name for her self (tart) she also got rejected by a guy she liked that iv known for yrs an her face wr a picture, an one of her ex bfs only went out with her for a wk as he got to no me an asked me out insted an my mate wr llike go for it thrs sum1 else that likes me anyway so ill go out with them.
basically let people get to know you as eventually they will see what you see in her
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